JW’s Financial Coaching Podcast Lesson #77-Can a saver learn to spend?

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  • Can a saver learn to spend money if it is not their natural tendency?
  • How saving can be taken too far
  • Why it is important to spend and not just save
  • Ways to help a saver loosen up their spending
  • Quote of the week

The JW’s Financial Coaching Podcast_77On the last lesson of the podcast we shared how it was possible for a spender to learn to save. Well on this week’s lesson we flip the script and share how a saver can loosen up their spending. Saving money in of itself is not a bad thing; however it is possible to take saving money too far. Spending money is a healthy exercise, if done properly, but it is not natural for a saver. Today we discuss three ways to help savers loosen up their spending. In addition we discuss the different between being cheap and being frugal and why it is important to spend money.

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This lesson’s quote comes to us from the legendary Bob Hope

“A bank is a place that will lend you money if you can prove that you don’t need it.”

Enjoyed this lesson? If so, please consider taking five minutes to leave a review of the show either in Stitcher SmartRadio, or iTunes. For a step by step video of how that works, please watch this video on how to leave a review in iTunes.

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If you have any comments, questions, or ideas for future shows you can send them to me and I will integrate them into a future show. There are two ways to get in touch with me: 1.) Email me at JWFinancialcoaching@gmail.com – Please put “podcast” in the subject line and keep your questions brief so they are readable on air. 2.) Simply fill out the form on the contact page. Please fill out your name, email, and your question/comment/suggestion and we will read it on air.

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VLOG-Another way to learn how to save

On a prior episode of the JW’S Financial Coaching Podcast I shared ways that a spender could learn to start saving some money. In that episode I forgot to mention another way to help you save money, which is to open a separate account to save money in. On today’s video blog I share why that is a great way to encourage savings no matter your income, current bank account balance, or savings rate.

To learn about other ways to become a better saver you can check out lesson #76 of the Podcast.

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JW’s Financial Coaching Podcast Lesson #76-Can a spender learn to save?

  • Can a spender learn to save money if it is not their natural tendency?
  • Why being a spender is not a bad thing
  • What keeps us from saving money
  • Ways to help us save more money
  • Quote of the week

Can a spender learn to save their money? I hear all the time from people, “I’m a spender, so I can’t possibly be expected to live on a budget or save money.”

But is that a valid reason not to save money? On today’s lesson we discuss why being a spender is not a bad thing, but rather it is the overspending that gets us. We also discuss what three things keep us from saving money, how to change those three things into our favor, and give three practical ways to increase your saving each month.

This lesson’s quote come from Dan Miller of 48days.com.  This quote comes from Dan’s latest book which he co-authored with his son Jared Angaza, titled Wisdom Meets Passion.

“Money is like fire: it can burn you and leave you disfigured, or it can keep you warm and safe.” ~ Dan Miller-Wisdom Meets Passion

If you are interested in downloading the audio version of Wisdom Meets Passion for free, please visit the podcast sponsor Audible.com

Enjoyed this lesson? If so, please consider taking five minutes to leave a review of the show either in Stitcher SmartRadio, or iTunes. For a step by step video of how that works, please watch this video on how to leave a review in iTunes.

You can subscribe to future podcasts through FeedburnerStitcher SmartRadioiTunes, or by downloading the iPhone app. Or you may listen to the podcast on the JW’s Financial Coaching Facebook Fan page.

If you have any comments, questions, or ideas for future shows you can send them to me and I will integrate them into a future show. There are two ways to get in touch with me: 1.) Email me at JWFinancialcoaching@gmail.com – Please put “podcast” in the subject line and keep your questions brief so they are readable on air. 2.) Simply fill out the form on the contact page. Please fill out your name, email, and your question/comment/suggestion and we will read it on air.

You can find prior editions of the podcast at the podcast archive page.

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JW’s Financial Coaching Podcast Lesson #75-How do you do fun money?

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  • What is “fun” money” and why it is important to have it in our budget
  • How to do “fun” money the right way
  • Why “fun” money is not an allowance
  • What the difference is between “fun” money and stopping at the ATM when you are low on cash
  • Quote of the week

“Fun” money can be named a lot of different things; blow money, spending me, cash but whatever you call it, it is an important piece to your budget. On today’s lesson we share what “fun” money is and isn’t, discuss its importance in your financial plan, and share the right way to do it.

No matter if you are a spender or a saver, fun money reminds us that it is financially healthy to spend as long as we do it in the confines of our monthly budget.

Also on today’s lesson we start a new segment called the Quote of the week. I’ll be sharing one quote a week that I find inspiring related to our finances. This week’s quote is

“Having the money in the bank does not tell you what you SHOULD do, it tells you what you CAN do.” ~ Jon White

Enjoyed this lesson? If so please consider taking five minutes to leave a review of the show either in Stitcher SmartRadio, or iTunes. For a step by step video of how that works, please watch this video on how to leave a review in iTunes.

You can subscribe to future podcasts through FeedburnerStitcher SmartRadioiTunes, or by downloading the iPhone app. Or you may listen to the podcast on the JW’s Financial Coaching Facebook Fan page.

If you have any comments, questions, or ideas for future shows you can send them to me and I will integrate them into a future show. There are two ways to get in touch with me: 1.) Email me at JWFinancialcoaching@gmail.com – Please put “podcast” in the subject line and keep your questions brief so they are readable on air. 2.) Simply fill out the form on the contact page. Please fill out your name, email, and your question/comment/suggestion and we will read it on air.

You can find prior editions of the podcast at the podcast archive page.

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“I love my house . . . that is breaking my budget”

The other day I overheard someone talking with their friends about their new house. They were describing how nice their yard was, how much bigger their home was than their previous one, and all the remodeling they wanted to get this year. But I couldn’t help but chuckle to myself when I heard them say half jokingly

“I love my house . . . that is breaking my budget.”

You have to laugh at that quote because if you didn’t you might just cry. How many of us are in that exact same situation? We found a house we really really liked that is just a bit above our price range. We tell ourselves that with a little cutting back and a little sacrifice in some other areas of our finances, we can afford it.

But then we don’t account for other expenses like new furniture for the bigger house, repairs, an increase in taxes, as well as the time investment involved with a house and it starts to add up quickly. Not so much that you lose the home and go bankrupt. But more like how it puts a clamp down on us from doing other things such as paying off debt, saving up for things we truly want and need, and investing for our future.

The thing is that a house doesn’t have to become a budget breaker. But we sometimes can assume that it does because it feels like everyone else’s home is. I recommend having a mortgage payment between 25-30% of your after tax income which will allow for some breathing room in your budget. This can be achieved by doing a monthly budget which tells you where your money is going each month and by saving up and having a nice down payment which will put you into a position to love your house . . . while not busting your budget.

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JW’s Financial Coaching Podcast Lesson #74-How is your return on luck?

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  • How people can be in the same situation but experience a completely different result
  • Based on Jim Collins chapter in Great by Choice on Return on Luck
  • How to get to the best return on your luck and to avoid making bad luck a disaster
  • We all catch breaks; it’s what you do with those breaks that matter the most
  • Each month is different?

Have you ever noticed how you can have people in the identical situation, yet the results vary drastically? Why does this happen? Is there a particular reason why some prosper in certain situation while others struggle to stay afloat? Today we examine this situation further and try to come up with an explanation.

Enjoyed this lesson? If so please consider taking five minutes to leave a review of the show either in Stitcher SmartRadio, or iTunes. For a step by step video of how that works, please watch this video on how to leave a review in iTunes.

You can subscribe to future podcasts through FeedburnerStitcher SmartRadioiTunes, or by downloading the iPhone app. Or you may listen to the podcast on the JW’s Financial Coaching Facebook Fan page.

If you have any comments, questions, or ideas for future shows you can send them to me and I will integrate them into a future show. There are two ways to get in touch with me: 1.) Email me at JWFinancialcoaching@gmail.com – Please put “podcast” in the subject line and keep your questions brief so they are readable on air. 2.) Simply fill out the form on the contact page. Please fill out your name, email, and your question/comment/suggestion and we will read it on air.

You can find prior editions of the podcast at the podcast archive page.

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JW’s Financial Coaching Podcast Lesson #73-Fathers, lead the way

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  • Inspired by last weekend being Father’s day weekend
  • Challenge/Encouragement to all the Dads listening
  • Take the lead in your families finances
  • Best way your children will learn is from you
  • Still applies to you even if you aren’t a dad

With last week being Father’s Day, today’s lessons is achallenge/encouragement/motivation on Father’s taking the lead on our families finances. Yes, schools need to teach our children about how money works in our schools. But the best teach on finances isn’t in your child’s school. It is the people who live in their homes.

Today’s lesson is full of ways to take the lead in your families finances either with your spouse or teaching your child about money. Don’t worry if you don’t have to be perfect to take the lead. We’ve all made mistakes with finances.

Even if you aren’t a father the principal of taking the lead in your families finances still applies.

Enjoyed this lesson? If so please consider taking five minutes to leave a review of the show either in Stitcher SmartRadio, or iTunes. For a step by step video of how that works, please watch this video on how to leave a review in iTunes.

You can subscribe to future podcasts through FeedburnerStitcher SmartRadioiTunes, or by downloading the iPhone app. Or you may listen to the podcast on the JW’s Financial Coaching Facebook Fan page.

If you have any comments, questions, or ideas for future shows you can send them to me and I will integrate them into a future show. There are two ways to get in touch with me: 1.) Email me at JWFinancialcoaching@gmail.com – Please put “podcast” in the subject line and keep your questions brief so they are readable on air. 2.) Simply fill out the form on the contact page. Please fill out your name, email, and your question/comment/suggestion and we will read it on air.

You can find prior editions of the podcast at the podcast archive page.

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Friday Financial Tidbit-Do I need to be debt free before purchasing a home?

Often in conversation with young adults and newlywed couples the topic of buying a house is mentioned. I understand and know why; buying a home is an exciting thing, not to mention the constant reminders from friends and co-workers that renting is a waste of money or our families asking us “When are you buying a home?” as soon as you get back from the Honeymoon. But in those conversations the question inevitably gets asked, do I need to be debt free first before buying a home?

In technical terms the answer is no; banks loan money all the time to individuals and couples who have student loans, credit card debt, car loans, and so on. Obviously there is a maximum to how much one can have, but having debt in and of itself does not preclude you from getting a mortgage. While it is possible to buy a home while still in debt, is it necessarily wise?

While I know people do it all the time and probably more people buy a home while still in debt than those who don’t, I can’t say I recommend it. I’ve been a homeowner for almost 8 years now and while I know owning a home is enjoyable, I also know that it can be a money drain. As things break in the home, you make updates, or you have things replaced it can be a big strain on your finances. While you have payments to your other debts coming out of your bank account it can be a challenge to build up savings to do the work on your home and instead we turn to even more debt or short change ourselves in retirement funding and other savings.

Now I know that might bring some of you to ask, what about my situation? You and your spouse might have $50,000 combined in student loan debt, you’re fresh out of college, and it is going to take YEARS to pay off your student loan, let alone save up enough money for a down payment. Well that may or may not be true; it might not take YEARS to pay off your debt, it might just feel like years. You just have house fever so you are being dramatic about it. Instead if you cut back, earn some extra money here and there, are serious about dumping your debt, and have a plan to knock it out as soon as possible, you will get there a lot sooner than you think.

But even if it is true that it will take you awhile to knock off your debt, my advice is still the same. Buying a house while still in debt is not the way to go. Going my route might take longer to get a house than your friends and you will probably continue to get teased by your family and get tired of answering the question, why are you still renting? But it is the best and safest way to own your home and it will ensure that you own the home and the home doesn’t own you.

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JW’s Financial Coaching Podcast Lesson #72-What I learned about money while being on hiatus

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  • Good to be back after three months off
  • What I learned about money while on hiatus
  • The importance of having strong financial influences in your life
  • How life events impact your finances
  • My interview with Deacon Bradley

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It’s good to be back back doing a lesson this week. I took a partial planned, partial unplanned three month break. But today I’m back and share what I’ve learned about money the past few months. Also I share how you can catch my appearance on episode one of my friend Deacon Bradley‘s new podcast. Deacon had me on to share how I’ve overcome fear in my life. We didn’t really talk about money but I still had a blast sharing my story.

Enjoyed this lesson? If so please consider taking five minutes to leave a review of the show either in Stitcher SmartRadio, or iTunes. For a step by step video of how that works, please watch this video on how to leave a review in iTunes.

You can subscribe to future podcasts through FeedburnerStitcher SmartRadioiTunes, or by downloading the iPhone app. Or you may listen to the podcast on the JW’s Financial Coaching Facebook Fan page.

If you have any comments, questions, or ideas for future shows you can send them to me and I will integrate them into a future show. There are two ways to get in touch with me: 1.) Email me at JWFinancialcoaching@gmail.com – Please put “podcast” in the subject line and keep your questions brief so they are readable on air. 2.) Simply fill out the form on the contact page. Please fill out your name, email, and your question/comment/suggestion and we will read it on air.

You can find prior editions of the podcast at the podcast archive page.

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JW’s Financial Coaching Podcast Lesson #71-“The Disease of More”

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  • How the “Disease of More” applies to our finances
  • Why we think we’ll be content with “just a little bit more”
  • Is it wrong to want more?
  • The fine line between being content and achievement
  • Why an emergency fund is more about comfort and not about the math

“Success is often the first step toward disaster.”

Hall of Fame NBA coach Pat Riley wrote that in his book Showtime. He coined it the “Disease of More.” It came from what he observed from his teams after they won the NBA championship. The year after winning the title it was a natural tendency for the players to stop focusing on what it took to win the championship. Instead they focused on individual fame, scoring more points individually, and making more money.

The concept of the “Disease of More” applies to our finances as well. It can happen whenever we make a purchase, no matter how big or small. We are content with it for a while, but eventually we want something newer, nicer, or bigger and we tell ourselves that once we get whatever it is we desire we’ll be happy. But it doesn’t work like that because someone will always have a nicer home, car, kitchen, newest gadget, etc., than the one we have.

When we fall victim to the “Disease of More” we become obsessed with whatever we desire and it is all we can think about. That object then becomes our idol, an idol that we can never satisfy.

Does this make it wrong to want more? Not necessarily. Working hard and saving up to buy something isn’t necessarily bad in and of itself. Having a want can be a good thing. But your self-worth should not be wrapped up in whether or not you get it. If it is then ultimately you will never be fulfilled because you will always want more and more.

The “Disease of More” is similar to the lifestyle inflation trap in some ways, but in other ways it is completely different. The “Disease of More” is an all out, endless effort to accumulate and achieve more and more. It is very dangerous for not only your finances but your spiritual state as well. Ultimately you will never find peace and contentment until you are first appreciative of what you have.

Enjoyed this lesson? If so please consider taking five minutes to leave a review of the show either in Stitcher SmartRadio, or iTunes. For a step by step video of how that works, please watch this video on how to leave a review in iTunes.

You can subscribe to future podcasts through FeedburnerStitcher SmartRadioiTunes, or by downloading the iPhone app. Or you may listen to the podcast on the JW’s Financial Coaching Facebook Fan page.

If you have any comments, questions, or ideas for future shows you can send them to me and I will integrate them into a future show. There are two ways to get in touch with me: 1.) Email me at JWFinancialcoaching@gmail.com – Please put “podcast” in the subject line and keep your questions brief so they are readable on air. 2.) Simply fill out the form on the contact page. Please fill out your name, email, and your question/comment/suggestion and we will read it on air.

You can find prior editions of the podcast at the podcast archive page.

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